- Missing the main function of parents :
- Lack of manhood:
- Getting used to this
- Lack of religious awareness
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Have you ever been afraid of having your kids in the surrounding events?!
Terrible education!, lack of justice!, terrible aimless youth!!!!
How are they going to be? Aimless, unsuccessful, petty!!
I have been thinking in this for a long long long time, then I told myself what made youth like this!! What were the causes?
These were my answers:
parents' nowadays don't care for their children their thoughts, FRIENDS, way of talking, opinion neither being responsible ;if they pray then they are safe darling what a fake!!!!! If they don't believe it will be just movements they do 5 times a day, can't you realize this! If they weren't raised on faith, Qur'an, Sunnah and values they will be just we are afraid they get to.
yes I am afraid so people that we have lack in manhood, where are the fathers who don’t allow their girls to wear tight, transparent and obscene ! Aren't they jealous !! Mr your own daughter is being showed to everyone single person in the street I am really sorry for father who are proud of their girls and their beauty, if you are really proud at least make them safe :) they are souls, personality, flesh, blood yes your own blood mr =)
At least even you aren't convinced with this remember hadith
قال صلى الله عليه وسلم : ( نساء كاسيات عاريات مائلات مميلات رءوسهن كأسنمة البخت المائلة لا يدخلن الجنة ولا يجدن ريحها)
And also
قال صلى الله عليه وسلم
إن الله سائل كل راع عما استرعاه، أحفظ ذلك أم ضيّع، حتى يسأل الرجل عن أهل بيته :
Remember dear father you will be asked about them =)
And this is the worst cause ever getting used to wrong things, value and actions
All in the society now dress like that, have boy/girl friend, girls take off hijab yes take OFF, not kind to their parents or cheat
I can't say anything about all this :) maybe all these things are beautiful but remember
إن الله يمهل ولا يهمل
I will leave it to you people and just remember things must be your motives and make you stronger
قال صلى الله عليه وسلم
يأتي على الناس زمان القابض على دينه كالقابض على الجمر
And
رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:"إن من بعدكم أياما؛ الصابر فيها المتمسك بدينه مثل ما أنتم عليه اليوم له أجر خمسين منكم". قيل: يا رسول الله ! منهم ؟ قال: "بل منك
Why don't we take our motives and role models from Qur'an ?
Do you know the story behind every ayah in Qur'an?
If you don't I recommend that you read about this
You'll figure out new motives, goals and amazing stories.
How much do you know about prophet Mohammad? His daughters' lives? Daughters! Yes his daughters gave us lessons too check this
You will discover new things every time you read in your religion
After introducing some of causes to you please people give some caring to you children even if you are still single :D give them 10 minutes every week and think how will you raise them up =)
Think how do you want them to be which will make prophet Mohammad proud of you =) and think how will you do this =)
And remember that from the second you plan for them till the moment they come and you really apply what you planned for GOD (Subhanahu w ta3ala) is giving you 7asanat for every single moment =)
It's time to wake up Muslims to save your own children =)
Hend it's an Amazing idea
ReplyDeletekeep going on it : )
you know i'm doing that : D .. everyday i'm thinking [ezay hrbehom west kol l hagat l 7walehom de .. w ezay hrbehom 3ashan akon f3ln om el et2al 3nhom el janna t7t aqdmhom .. ]
u knw fe problem tnya mmkn tkone msh w5da balek mnha ,... nw Elnas bt5tar shrek /sherekt 7ytha bl mzhr wl flos wl kalam dh w nsyo en el by5trohom dol homa l hyrbo wldhom fa lw a5l2hom w7sha aked msh hytl3o kowysen
nsyo Rasol allah 3lyh l salat wl salam w hwa by2ol
تُنكح المرأة لأربع لمالها , وحسبها , وجمالها , ولدينها فاظفر بذات الدين
تربت يداك) رواه البخاري .
and
إذا أتاكم من ترضون خلقه ودينه فزوجوه، إلا تفعلوا تكن فتنة في الأرض وفساد عريض. رواه ابن ماجه والترمذي وحسنه الألباني.
the first step is to choose correctly and then Everything will be alright
thanks mony =)
ReplyDeletei want to comment i know what u mean but this is a result of these causes :D if kids were raised on having a personality, opinion and a unique, islamic way of thinking they will choose right =)
choosing based on beauty and money will always fail because both may vanish in one night i agree with u =)
Hend this is just amazing :D first I would like to congratulate you on the Blog thing =) I've been thinking about that for a long time and I think it's a great idea :D
ReplyDeleteSecond; I really love your POV.
People believe that holding on to your religion and connection to Allah is something they did in the old days and now we should be modern and only care about looks and what we wear and who likes who and who loves who and all this silly nonsense that will sure lead us to nowhere except down the cliff. Nothing ever lasts but what you prepare for your end. Life is just a journey but unlike the saying, it's the destination that makes the journey count.
The main problem I'm concerned with now is that 10 years from now.. Who will be the parents? WE WILL! but take a look around you.. everyone thinks it's totally okay to cheat.. they think a girl is not attractive unless she wears a pair of skinny jeans and puts on every single bit of make up she can.. those are the mothers of the future!! and if we can't do something about it then there will be no future for us.
What we should do is hold on to our beliefs and no matter how dark the future seems for the next generation, we have got to believe that we can change that.
manar i am speechless after your words =)
ReplyDeletei believe that we are not the majority but at least we exist, so we should netqen our work, raising our children so that one day they can raise their own children and the circle grows that what i hope =)
and thaaanks =)
Aywa b2a ya Hend b2aaaaa :D:D:D And here she comes our new writer :D:D:D Keep going ya Indiaaaaaa :)
ReplyDeletethaanks ya nader =)jak =)
ReplyDeleteHend !!
ReplyDeleteSimply Amazing
Bgd JA5
i will start from today really isA =)
i am in deep love with children and really waiting the day i will have kids -isA-
I kept saying that i will prepare myself to raise them up when i am really waiting them... but, really i will start thinking about this issue from today , as every single moment of thinking and preparation will give more positive effect :')
it touched me really
thanks henda...w8ing more ;)
@maha: i am happy you liked it =')
ReplyDeletei hope everyone realize this issue and try to solve it really, if everyone of us started i BELIEVE there will be a difference isa =)